If you've experienced colleagues or superiors offensive comments, jokes or behaviours relating to your bladder condition, and you have reason to believe this was intentionally offensive, intimidating, humiliating or degrading then my advice to you is to follow it up. You know how much you've had to go through to get here, and you are not alone. I know it's intimidating, but do not be afraid to take a stand for yourself and get your power back, you not only stand for yourself but you stand for all sufferers of this invisible illness. When you defend your existence in this way, you are ensuring awareness is reaching where it can, and that can be your strength.
You have so many rights, and you don't have to feel like IC controls you, once you learn how to live with it. You will begin the next steps of your journey. Keep going.